Conversations With My Younger Self

Finding myself again through divorce

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Hi!

Im sharing a lot of my story here, this is not about airing dirty laundry, and Im only calling that out because I have such a fear that I am doing that. But I think we each have a truth, and as women we could use a little more permission to tell it rather than spare people.  I don’t intend to cause harm or speak negatively about anyone, but I will say that sometimes our truth does that.  There are always multiple sides, we know that.  This is just mine.  The intent of this whole page started as a means to help you.  Help someone else who feels like she was screaming into a void about her unhappiness.  I felt like I looked in every direction for confirmation that what I was experiencing was not okay, knowing in my heart it wasn’t, but I mostly got feedback that it wasn’t “that bad”.  Or maybe that was my own voice, we aren’t sure yet because often they blend.  So I have spent a lot of time trying to unlearn that voice.  And if it can save someone else, I hope it does.  No matter the situation, it doesn’t need to mirror mine, we have to learn to hear our own voice and come back to it every time we are faced with a challenge or confusion.  That’s what this is, no one else can save us, but we can learn to.  I hope my words can give you freedom, while they give me freedom too.  I also have some resources to help you if you are stuck and looking for the faster path to answers